It’s much simpler than you think. When it comes to sex, men and women tend to look at it differently. Women can still think about sex from time to time, but men are more likely to think about sex obsessively.
As a woman who goes through the world of dating and relationships, this difference usually occurs when you try not only to make a man not only to want you, but also to make him fall in love with you and dedicate himself to the relationship on long term.
The story usually goes this way.
You meet a guy and you start to like him. You have already gone out on a few dates together and you can already see that you have a future with him. He feels ready to have an intimate relationship with you and you know that you do not feel ready to do this, but you are afraid that you will scare him and that you will hurt his feelings if you refuse him when it comes to sex.
Fortunately, you can learn how to reach him without compromising your own values and feelings, and the first thing you should know is how men think.
When it comes to sex, it’s easy to describe men in a general way, but the truth is that sex often means more to a man than “putting it on.”
Of course, men want to have sex with you because of the happy ending, but they also want to reach you on a deeper emotional level.
Unfortunately, the fact that they do not know this makes many women feel like they are being put on the corner, so they end up looking for ways to make him dedicate themselves to a relationship because of confusion and despair.
But there are still some ways to prevent and resolve such situations.
It is very important not to start being defensive and to start assuming that a man wants to put you to bed just because he wants your body. Of course, such things happen, but not always.
The problem with this dynamic is that it produces a dangerous dialogue
There are women who, when they are in such a scenario, usually end up saying things like, “All right, you want to have sex with me and I want dedication from you. I will give you my body and have sex with you, only if you give me security and dedicate yourself to me. “
If the man agrees with this, then only a false illusion of safety has been created.
Don’t lose your temper
But let’s not get into dramas. There is, most often, the situation that many already know, that of not accepting the partner by the family because “that’s what they want”. So, without a serious reason, they are stubborn to accept it regardless of the qualities and love it brings you. You don’t have to lose your temper.
If you know you are right and know the habits of the family, try as much as possible to offer protection both to your relationship and especially to the one next to you, who, don’t forget, doesn’t know them and especially, can’t get used to their whims. And in this case, time will probably tell.